Getting old!…........Old Age, I decided, is a gift. What do you think about getting old?

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A...I am now, probably for the first time in my life, the person I have always wanted to be. Oh, not my body! I sometime despair over my body, the wrinkles, the baggy eyes, and the sagging butt. And often I am taken aback by that old person that lives in my mirror (who looks like my mother!), but I don't agonize over those things for long.

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B...I would never trade my amazing friends, my wonderful life, my loving family for less gray hair or a flatter belly. As I've aged, I've become more kind to myself, and less critical of myself. I've become my own friend.

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C...I don't chide myself for eating that extra cookie, or for not making my bed, or for buying that silly cement gecko that I didn't need, but looks so avant garde on my patio. I am entitled to a treat, to be messy, to be extravagant.

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D...I have seen too many dear friends leave this world too soon; before they understood the great freedom that comes with aging. Besides, the older you get, the better 42 player you are, ain't that the truth!

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E...Whose business is it if I choose to read or play on the computer until 4 AM and sleep until noon?  Those darn democrats will want to legislate that too, when they get in the White House!

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F...I will dance with myself to those wonderful tunes of the 60&70's, and if I, at the same time, wish to weep over a lost loved one ... I will. And I just might take off across the country on a HAWG exhorting women to be all that they can be!

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G...I will walk the beach in a swim suit that is stretched over a bulging body, and will dive into the waves with abandon if I choose to, despite the pitying glances from the jet set.  They, too, will get old.

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H...I know I am sometimes forgetful. But there again, some of life is just as well forgotten. And I eventually remember the important things.. like not leaving my wife

at the gas station, or like.......err.....now what was the question?

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I...Sure, over the years my heart has been broken. How can your heart not break when you lose a loved one, or when a child suffers, or even when somebody's beloved pet gets hit by a car? But broken hearts are what give us strength and understanding and compassion. A heart never broken is pristine and sterile and will never know the joy of being imperfect.  You can't just run off screaming, you have to stay and make sure the tators don't burn.

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J...I am so blessed to have lived long enough to have my hair turning gray, and to have my youthful laughs be forever etched into deep grooves on my face. So many have never laughed, and so many have died before their hair could turn silver.

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K...As you get older, it is easier to be positive. You care less about what

other people think. I don't question myself anymore. I've even earned the right to be wrong. Although, as my friends will attest, I very seldom am.

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L...So, to answer your question, I like being old. It has set me free. I like the person I have become. I am not going to live forever, but while I am still here, I will not waste time lamenting what could have been, or worrying about what will be. And I shall drink a Bud or two every single day. (If I feel like it)